Their Frilly Panties In A Wad
Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
One sign that you are doing something right is that you are pissing off the right people. As one of my mentors once said, “If you aren’t offending someone at least every day, you are watering down your message”.
Over the years, as I’ve taught and spread the Gospel of Sargy, I’ve encountered all sorts of knee-jerk reactions from people who can’t even hear what I am saying because they are responding from their fixated, auto-pilot notions of what they ASSUME I am all about.
It’s hilarious how the idiocy of these people has not changed one bit over the years. I’m hearing the same crap, or reading the same crap on line, that I used to hear from studio audience members when I first did the talk show circuit in the early 90’s.
The basic dumb-ass response categories are:
1. Calling me “misogynist” or “sexist”.
2. Insulting my personal apperance; “ugly” “geeky” etc etc
3. Threatening with bodily harm
Now, it just so happens that I recently landed a gig as the dating/sex/relationship blogger for a mega-blog in LA called laist.com. And the same idiocy and knee-jerk crap responses from the 90’s are going on over there.
Some of it is sheer reactive stupidity. But the more dangerous aspect is the attempt to silence ANY attempt to empower men to have genuine choice, variety, selectivity and power when it comes to attracting women. (It’s shameful that men join in on this)
The women who are ugly, nasty, off-putting etc don’t want men to have true choice. Because they damn well know that men would most likely NOT choose them. So it’s pretty amazing to see how they try to shame, shun, and intimidate you away from your natural desires.
The other category of idiots are those people who don’t want to admit the reality of their own very flawed romantic world. They are deeply threatened by the notion that maybe, just maybe, they(or the person they are dating) is settling for a relationship by default. They want to believe in the cultural myths of men as beggar, buyer, bullyer or boozer. And anyone who offers to awaken them from that slumber is not well received.
So pop on over to laist.com and look for my blog. Jump in and give your opinion.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. My 2008 seminar schedule will be posted on the website shortly. But here is the tentative schedule:
Los Angeles, Speed Seduction, Feb 15, 16, 17th , Speed Seduction
Los Angeles, March 7, 8, 9 Nail Your Inner Game Intensive
London May 30, 31, June 1st Speed Seduction
NYC Speed Seduction June 27, 28, 29
London Sept 26, 27, 28 Magick PI
Oct 7, 8, 9 Speed Seduction
South Africa(tentative date), Speed Seduction, Dec 12, 13, 14th
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December 20th, 2007 at 3:17 pm
Hi Ross,
Why do u post on that laist.com? R u checking what the people outside the SS comunity are thinkin’?
December 20th, 2007 at 8:22 pm
What’s up, Ross? Your hair looks cool!
In regards to your post, do you believe that it’s not plausible to market your products in a way that doesn’t offend people and still make an impact? Kind of like bypassing automatic triggers in women you’re sarging.
What made me write this comment is that I’ve been very focused on my skills in seduction(I’m not that experienced in SS however), that when I don’t get good responses, I would get very upset. And nowadays I’m thinking that somethings are out of your control and you can’t expect to please everyone…
I think this is a similar message you’re sending.
Cheers!
December 20th, 2007 at 10:56 pm
What’s up, Ross? Your hair looks cool!
In regards to your post, do you believe that it’s not plausible to market your products in a way that doesn’t offend people and still make an impact? Kind of like bypassing automatic triggers in women you’re sarging.
What made me write this comment is that I’ve been very focused on my skills in seduction(I’m not that experienced in SS however), that when I don’t get good responses, I would get very upset. And nowadays I’m thinking that somethings are out of your control and you can’t expect to please everyone…
I think this is a similar message you’re sending.
Cheers!
December 21st, 2007 at 11:19 am
Sex Ninja, I’m not going to water down the message to avoid offending people who don’t want men to have power and choice with women.
Over at LAist.com, the assumption is that men are monsters and the very topic ought to be censored; some of the writers for that blog are threatening to quit if they keep me on as a writer.
Fucking pussies….
RJ
December 21st, 2007 at 6:52 pm
Too bad they shut down your gig over at laist, but you have to understand that this is the threatened response of people who feel like they might either be losing power or that someone else might be gaining more power than they are.
Check the response to Ron Paul for instance. No Im not trying to tout him on your blog, Im just saying those whos ideas differ than the masses as you well know have to deal with the ridicule and so on of those who are fearful.
The fact that they reacted so strongly should be an indication to you how strong a product you have.
Anyways I heard a little about your Nail Your Inner Game Product? What would be the difference between that and the Beyond Confidence Videos or Unstoppable Confidence?
Reason Im asking is that I swear I can be my own worst enemy. I have been on one hell of an emotional rollercoaster and have experienced things that I wouldn’t wish on my own worst enemy and yet I keep bouncing back and all the while I have gained successe with women - even during times I was suffering emotionally and combating my emotionals issues.
Now I have a fucking glow that can’t be denied but I STILL after some of the beautiful women I have been with and some of the sexy experiences I have had since learning seduction skills choke ALOT. I can’t do sets, sometimes I sit at home like right now and my mind gives me all these ominous thoughs about all sorts of rejections and having to seek approval and all that EVEN though I have already learned that this is NOT the way to be.
And I know why, because of what I’ve gone through in my life. Fear is my biggest enemy and I swear I don’t want to get stuck on him. I should be able to defeat fear but it still is a big issue with me and meanwhile I have seen some of my friends who study Pick Up bypass me and I begin to think there’s something wrong with me because I should be doing ALOT better.
Anyways to keep this short ;p What is this Nail Your Inner Game going to do for me and how? Can you give me examples?
OH one more thing that is VERY important. I have a tendancy to self sabotage. If I do something that works sometimes I will get bored alot and move on and not do it anymore, which never makes sense to me. When I meet a challenge or see a result instead of striving for even greater challenges or results I seem to kinda stop and lose focus. I might be ADD or something but IMO I just like experiencing as much of everything I can. Another thing I do is start things and leave them unfinished. The only thing I seem to have a drive for is physical activity - I love working out and pushing myself even though my body hates it (during), however funny enough when I was younger I won a national championship in martial arts but then soon after I just kinda stopped and lost interest. Recently I started thai boxing an its a bitch (my feet are bruised and soar from kicking today) but I love it.I know you didn’t want to hear my frickin life story but when I get on a roll there’s no stopping me. I just wish I could get out of this moderate, sporadic success with women and move to the next level instead of battling myself all the time. Im doing ALOT better than I used to before studying but I know I could be doing A WHOLE LOT BETTER than I am doing now.
December 21st, 2007 at 9:24 pm
I see your point. What I’m trying to ask is that instead of directly arguing with them, how come you don’t use NLP skills to pursuade them instead? You don’t just go up to women and say “fuck me now cuz you really want to, you just don’t want to admit it!” Why not apply the same principles in pursuading people whom are against your teachings? I’m not saying you should or not, I’m just curious as to your thoughts on this.
December 28th, 2007 at 7:41 pm
Hey Ross,
Thanks for the speedy reply! It’s good to know you’re interested in selling your product. :o/