Leykis Loonies Want My Head!
Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,
Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.
Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.
However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.
Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.
And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.
Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.
And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.
I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.
That last sentence is so important I am going to repeat in all caps for you Leykettes to ponder at length over your beer and bologna sandwiches:
WHAT YOU SET AS YOUR VISION WILL BE THE LIMITS OF YOUR EXPERIENCE
If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.
Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.
‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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August 9th, 2008 at 12:55 am
I like the structure of Tom Leykis
Why should a man wait 6 dates to see if there is chemistry - life is short, Ross!
WOMEN have a 3 date rule, unless they are dining on his dime, for kicks.
Leykis has good core rules, most men are not following his most wild rules.
ROSS, please email me, I have something important businesswise to tell you.thx
August 9th, 2008 at 4:21 pm
Why bother with dating at all? It’s not a good way to create fascination, attraction, interest, arousal or any of it.
Email me if you wish: sandworm77@ca.rr.com
September 19th, 2008 at 7:25 am
Personally, I think that we (both men & women) have become slaves to the thoughts of others and do not use our own brain cells.
No single persons vantage point should become our own.
I try to learn from almost everyone’s opinion or view and glean what I can use, leaving the chaff behind.
Even Mr. Jeffries here says some things that I do not find applicable to my life & situation.
I take what I can use, mold it to my own version and benefit or else reject it.
It’s similar to the political scene: How does one accept and adopt all the policies of any one party? Both have plusses & minuses.
I do strongly agree that those adopted opinions will enhance or limit our life’s experiences. This has been my experience with not only ladies, but also finances, career, etc.
A positive, open mind has been one of my greatest assets.
It did not happen passively, I had to learn to develop it and work really hard to maintain it.
Keep the faith Brothers!
Peace & Pieces Ross!