Handling The “How Old Are You” Question?
Ok guys,
One of you students on my members-only Yahoo group was bitching about being an older guy who wants hot young women, but these young lassies keep asking him, “How old are you?” and he can’t get past the question.
Here is my answer to this dilemna, on video
P.S. Please feel free to pass this video around to anyone!RJ
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July 13th, 2007 at 12:29 pm
“I’m not you’re girlfriend with a penis, I could fuck you at anytime, and I’ll protect you…” Wow… somehow hearing something along those lines really gives a guy a sense of empowerment, doesn’t it? I wonder if younger guys should take on these same engergies that you advocate for older men.
I heard that you might be doing a seminar in Hawaii sometime soon, Ross. Just be sure to mention it if you do, as I’m sure you will, being that I live in Hawaii, and would love to attend.
July 20th, 2007 at 6:45 pm
That’s totally true. I’ve also learned energy is more than just a word or a concept of a thought, it’s an actual feeling that can be produced. BTW, I have a history with your products and I have to apologize for returning one of them because I already knew the stuff you were teaching on one of them. So, I didn’t feel it was right for a broke ass college student like me to be purchasing material I already knew. I’m really sorry about that… but I still kept the basics around because we always have to go back to them!
BUT, I have a sincere question. What do you think about the inner game/outter game dichotomy that seems to be unfolding inside the community? Some people get really attached to their idea that inner game or outter game is more superior than the other. Personally, I think they both operate within the interdepedent flux that the buddhists call “interdepdent co-arising”.
July 21st, 2007 at 11:03 am
Inner game/outer game dichotomy?
Uh, to me it’s all about understanding process.
Whether you are looking at the emotional states of a woman, or your own state, you have to bear in mind that there is no such “thing” as “confidence” or “Game” or any of it.
Meaning these are not “things” but rather ongoing processes. As such, they have a structure, syntax of a sort, etc. etc.
Beyond that, I can tell you that Speed Seduction(R) has really evolved into something that strongly emphasizes the use of “vibe” or “energy”, as well as taking on certain perspectives and understandings about how women(and people at large) work.
For sure, the language patterns are and always will be important, but they work best when you’ve got the other stuff down. And the other “stuff”-the vibe, etc, isn’t just an “inner” thing because the vibe also extends OUTWARD to attract women. So from in to out it goes.
I guess SS is about in-out!
Please be sure to share this post around as much as you like, I’m just learning this blogging stuff!
July 21st, 2007 at 6:32 pm
Oh,I did share your blog. I actually posted the sociology major’s thesis on the http://www.venusianarts.com/forum because it was SO interesting… especially for an academic nerd like myself. LOL
And, yeah, that is a very good way to put it. You’ve already transcended this understanding by explaining it as a “process”. That one word makes all the difference for me. Anyway, thanks for the products and the blogs. This is really a great contribution you’re making to confused men living in a confusing age! Keep it up man!
December 24th, 2007 at 5:56 am
Hi Ross,
Just recently discovered your blog, there’s great stuff in here. I am an older guy (37yrs) but I look like I’m 23 to 28 years old. Just yesterday I was buying shoes and the gorgeously cute sales girl was flirting with me like crazy. She was 18 and when I told her how old I was she freaked obviously. In the past I have lied about my age but it always catches up with you, so now I tell the truth against my better judgement! I give up! Anyway, the video link on your blog doesn’t work, are you able to re-post the video, or give a brief explanation of what us older guys should do?
Thanks
December 24th, 2007 at 3:02 pm
Link works fine for me, just tested it. Try with a different browser.
As for your question; I rarely have them ask. If they ask, just say, “I’ve been around long enough to know where all the fun spots are at the party….”
RJ
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