Ross Jeffries Uncensored

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I must be hitting some raw nerves with this series, because I am getting some wonderful feedback.

In Part II, I explained the all important difference when it comes to interest, investment and commitment to action with women, and how mastering this will skyrocket your success, satisfaction and enjoyment with women.

Now I would like to talk about the third fatal mistake with women. This one is relatively easy to correct(note I said “relatively):

Third Fatal Mistake: Opening Your Mouth More Than Your Ears

Listen: much of what we are commonly taught about success with women, is not only wrong, but dead wrong. It leads to confusion, frustration, settling for women you can get, staying with women you’d leave in a moment if you could do better, occasional relationships by “mistake” etc etc etc.

It sucks.

Often success in any area of life involves ignoring and even doing the exact opposite of what people tell you.

So contrary to the utter bovine feces that is being taught all of those “pick up” gurus-who are mostly my failed former students anyway-you should NOT be doing most of the talking, spinning your “value demonstration” routines, and monopolizing the conversation.

Instead, understand that if you can get a woman talking in the right direction, about the right themes and topics, and if you can learn to observe and guide the powerful emotions she experiences as she does so…

She Will More Often That Not TALK HERSELF RIGHT INTO YOUR BED!

I cannot tell you how many times, time after time, women have virtually handed me their “seduction road map” all because I knew how to get them talking in the right direction that stirred up all their juicy emotions.

In fact, there are actually six major conversational themes or topic I’ll teach you, any one of which will get a woman steaming hot, invested and ready to act on her desire with you!

(Remember, as I said in the last issue, strong emotions are just the first step in the interest—>investment—>commitment cycle.)

But in order to do this, you have to listen to what she is saying. That means you need to know when to shut your mouth and open your ears. And you can’t do that if you are blabbing all the time.

So shit-can those club-routines my retarded, flunked-out, former students are peddling, and learn to listen your way into a woman’s bed. It’s the smart, fun, and easy way to have the satisfaction and choice with the truly desirable women you’ve really wanted.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday I told you about a radio interview I did, in which the on air talent asked me, “What are the 3 or 4 biggest mistakes guys make with women?”

I went over the first fatal mistake with women: over focusing on the behaviors and actions you want from her, instead of focusing on the emotional states you would like her to be in when she is around you. I explained that in the right emotional states-fascination, desire, lust-a woman will naturally want to give you all of the behaviors that you want from her.

So let’s get to…

The Second Fatal Mistake Guys Make With Women: Not Getting The Woman To Invest In And Keep Reaching For The Powerful, Positive Emotions She’s Feeling For You!

Pay attention now, because I am about to clear up one of the most confusing, frustrating, “tear out your hair” realities about women. If you have ever had a seemingly great first meeting or date with a woman, where it really felt like you were both “clicking”, both having “chemistry”, even making out like crazy AND YOU NEVER HEARD FROM HER AGAIN, then I am going to clear that up and show you how to never have that happen again.

So listen:

If you are always moving forward with a woman, constantly giving her the strong emotions she wants, you are not giving her the sense that these experiences with you are something of great value that she has to work for to get more.

Women need to feel, on some level, that they are reaching for more. That the emotional experiences you give them are something THEY want more of and must work for and pursue.

This is the true explanation behind the “half-truth” that says that women want what they can’t have.

Well, that is a bunch of bull. Most women can’t have an African elephant step on their heads, and they don’t want it either.

The truth is that if a woman wants something, she will want it much more if, on some level, she has to reach for more of it.

If you are constantly moving forward with a woman, constantly showing her your interest and constantly giving her strong, powerful emotions, you are actually STRONGLY interfering with the inner process she has to undergo to feel that these experiences are something she has to get more of!

To put it another way, even the hungriest person will sooner or later feel full if you keep shoving the pasta down their throats.

So knowing how to pull back a little bit and make a woman keep reaching for the attention and interest and strong emotions you are showing her is a key to turning her momentary strong interest into powerfully strong actions.

In case you are a real moron and need it spelled out for you, here is the formula:

Strong interest + having to reach for more = STRONG ACTIONS

Once you get a woman’s interest, you have to get her investment. And once you get her investment, you can get her commitment to the actions you want from her.

Interest——>Investment——>——-Commitment——>Action

Just to be clear, a woman’s commitment certainly doesn’t have to be verbalized or stated on her part. And the gap between her being emotionally committed and her actions could be so fast that they appear to be one and the same, and for all intents and purposes, they are.

A metaphor before I wrap this up to help you understand the difference between these three things: in a breakfast of bacon and eggs, you, the hungry person are interested. The chicken is invested. But the pig is COMMITTED!

Take me on as your teacher and coach, and the confusion around women will be replaced with uncanny and totally accurate insight into where they are in this process, how to guide them through it with a sense of power and fun, and enjoy how great THEY feel surrendering to you every step along the way.

And doesn’t that beat a poke in the eye?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day, I did a radio interview that went much better than I would have expected.

You see, I’ve done hundreds of radio interviews in my fifteen plus years of teaching Speed Seduction®, and usually the hosts are dumb as a bag of rocks.

But the hosts of this interview were actually quite bright, and one of them asked me a question that forms of the basis of this report:

“What are the top mistakes men make with women?”

Now, as I answered her, I realized that this crucial information needed to get out to far more people than were listening to that program.

Hence this report, that will reveal ten fatal mistakes that almost every guy is making, in one way or another. Any one of these mistakes is bad news for your success with women, but if you are making three or more of them, you are virtually guaranteeing yourself a life of struggle, settling, and very possible sexual starvation. And I don’t wish that on anyone.

On the other hand, when you correct these mistakes, and you’ll pretty quickly find yourself in a world of power, choice, satisfaction, and fulfillment with the kind of women your friends just dream of and drool over.

So let’s get going with the first fatal mistake. I realize it is a big mouthful, but bear with me and I will explain every word. Here we go:

Fatal Mistake #1:Overfocusing On The Behaviors And Actions You Want From Women Instead Of First Focusing On Creating The Right Emotions To Motivate Those Behaviors And Actions

Ok. Like I just said, I realize I said a big mouthful. But bear with me here, because getting this concept could turn your entire life around when it comes to juicy fulfillment with awesome women.

Listen: for the most part, as males, we are very behavior and action focused. We think of terms of what we want to do, how we want to act, and what we want others to do and how we want others to act.

In the case of women, we are most likely to ask ourselves questions like, “How can I get her to go out with me? How can I get her to sleep with me? What can I do to get Debby to have a threesome?” Etc etc etc.

We don’t ask questions about how we want women to feel. We ask questions about how we can get women to act.

Now it is all very well to be goal-oriented; I support that and approve of it.

However, when it comes to women, the key to getting them act the way you want is to ask:

“What are the emotional states in which it would be most natural for her to do all these great things with me, to me, and for me?”

In other words, if Debby or Sally or Hortensia is going to sleep with you/blow you/have a threesome, what are the emotions/emotional states she needs to be in to most easily and naturally want to be do these things?

Now, I realize this is a pretty foreign and off-center way for us guys to be thinking. But bear in mind this rule of personal change I’ve taught thousands of guys:

“The further a way of thinking or acting stands from what you are used to doing, the greater the potential for results much better than what you are used to enjoying”

Put another way: the further you stretch, the greater you progress.

You see, to have great results with women, you don’t just need to change your actions. You need to change how you are thinking.

Given the truth of this, start learning to ask, “What emotional states would be useful for women to experience when they are around me so they naturally want to do all the things I want them to do with me/for me/to me?”

Now, when I ask this question in my seminars, the answers I typically get from students are:

“Lust”

“Fascination”

“Arousal”

“Attraction”

“Urgency”

All very good, very useful, and very powerful emotional states in which to guide women.

But I would also balance these with the following:

“Safety”

“Trust”

“Comfort”

“Connection”

You see, not only do most guys not even think in terms of emotional states. They don’t think in terms of having the proper balance of emotional states.

We can think of the first set of emotional states I listed as being in a general category I’ll call “heat”. Meaning that when women are in these states, they are feeling strong body sensations of desire, sexual arousal, etc.

We can think of the second set of emotional states as “comfort”. Meaning that there is an overall(but less intense) body sensation of being “ok”.

Sometimes this just amounts to an absence of negative emotions like “fear” “anxiety” or “worry”. In that sense, these states are more about what ISN’T there; it’s not that women are feeling an overall comfort, but that they are not feeling threatened or fearful. For some women, that is all they require when it comes to the “comfort” states.

Sometimes, there is a more active overall body sense of well-being, feeling connected in a good way to the man, safety, comfort, etc. Some women require that.

When you are engaged in the process of very successfully attracting women, the key is to get a good balance of comfort and heat. You need both to shape her feelings in a way where she feels an urgent need to jump your bones(to use scientific terminology).

Getting both in the right proportions and the right time is where most 99 % of guys fall down flat.

The “nice guys” are fantastic at creating the comfort states. So a woman feels perfectly safe. But perfectly safe and only that leads to hearing….

…”Let’s Just Be Friends”

To which I say, “No. If you want a friend, get a dog.”

Guys who can only or mostly generate the heat states are certainly much better off than the “nice guys”. But the problem for these “players” is that often, as turned on as a woman might be, if she doesn’t also feel some kind of comfort state, she’ll put up lots of last minute resistance or just plain talk herself out of the entire thing. Or go ahead with it and deeply regret it the next day and make the player’s life a living hell.

So not only will creating the right mix of emotional states of heat and comfortIt will help make the entire experience much more rewarding and fun for you AND them much more easily get women jumping into your bed. .

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Well, this little hottie has an original song she recorded entitled,
what else, Speed Seduction!

Fast forward this video to 3:40.

Angel..you are a little devil..care to give my forked tail a yank?