Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It would be safe to say that I get some of the most interesting “fan mail” you could imagine.

Most of it is from people praising the brilliance of my work and offering thanks for what it has done for them. And I’m grateful for that.

Occasionally there is the request for free stuff, which I almost always turn down. (But make up a good story I’ve never heard before and who knows-you might get some free courses. But be warned-I’ve heard them all)

The ones I find most interesting are the hostile ones and the cries for help.

The hostile ones are usually filled with spelling-errors, grammatical mistakes, and vile suggestions about my ancestry, ethnicity, and personal anatomy.

The cries for help are sometimes overwhelming and always humbling. It would be no exaggeration to say that many guys are at the end of their proverbial rope when it comes to this issue of success with women.

So what do I say to that guy who has been crushed by his wife of 20 years having an affair and walking out on him, taking the kids with her too? What do I say to that guy who just turned 30 and has never had a girlfriend in his life?

The first thing I tell them is that everything they’ve been through up to this moment of writing me is true, real and valid. I don’t try to talk down or minimize their pain, fear and frustration. Nor do I give them trite, enraging advice like, “Look on the bright side” or “You’ll find someone”.

The next thing I tell them is this: everything you’ve experienced up until now was based on the tools, information, technology and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now. Change any of those things, and you’ll get much different results.

Anyone who had the tools, technology, information and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now would have gotten the same results you’ve gotten and could not have done any better.

Then I tell them this: what’s possible for a person with the right tools, technology, information and ways of thinking would seem like magic to someone who doesn’t have them. Just think of a primitive tribesman in some rainforest in Brazil who has never seen an airplane. If you told them you could get across their entire country in 2 hours, they’d laugh at you.

Usually that begins to create just enough doubt in their prior conviction that they are hopeless that I can get some leverage into their mind and explain what really works with women, as opposed to what they’ve been stuck thinking and doing. And then I recommend my Triple Threat Offer (which you can read about in this link).

But you know, this weekend, at my niece’s wedding, I heard a metaphor that really struck me. I’m going to share it with those “cries for help” guys from now on, and I’d like to share it with you. It’s about the power of the human spirit to be remade, reshaped, and renewed no matter how seemingly broken.

You see, at a Jewish wedding, one of the final bits of ceremony is that the groom steps on a glass and breaks it. There are many interpretations of what this symbolic act means.

But the Rabbi at my niece’s wedding explained it like this. “The human spirit-a person’s life-is like a glass. No matter how seemingly broken, smashed to pieces or shattered apart, glass can always be gathered up, re-melted, and shaped into something beautiful again.”

Now that metaphor really struck me. And you know, in the work I’ve done, I’ve seen it to be true.

I’ve seen guys who thought their divorce was the worst nightmare, only to see later how they’d been set free to use these wonderful tools to enjoy happiness, success and satisfaction with women of a quality they’d never imagined they could have.

I’ve seen guys go from suicidal despair to dancing with joy at how happy the women in their lives are making them.

I guess I now have a new metaphor for my own job: glass smelter and glass maker. But don’t you dare call me a glass “blower” or we are going to have problems.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Triple Threat Offer and my Nail Your Inner Game Program. Two great offers to begin re-shaping the glass of your love life:

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Perhaps I should have entitled this blog post “Oh My God, I Popped Pippi”. But that would be disrespectful to the young lady I spent 10 glorious days with, whom I actually wound up deeply caring for and genuinely liking. She turned out to be one of the funniest, most affectionate, giving, hot, sexy, intelligent, supportive, easy going, yet strong women I’ve ever met. She really made me feel quite loved and desired and I’m grateful for the time with her.



Now lest you think your old Guru of Gash is getting soft in the head and changing his tune, I have NEVER said that you can’t like and enjoy and respect the women you’re enjoying sexually. Actually I prefer that. Shit, who wouldn’t?

The difference in this case is how far it went in that positive direction, and how surprising that was, as I had only spent one evening with this young lady-my final night in England after my September Speed Seduction(R) seminar had concluded.



No need to get into the details of how that first meeting occurred, but truly, I had no idea I would enjoy her so much and we actually wound up laughing more than I can ever remember doing with anyone.

Now, here is the funniest thing: I thought much of the kick would be me showing off this gorgeous 19 year old woman to everyone I could, but after a day or two, I just enjoyed her personally so much that I didn’t even notice or care what others were thinking, with the exception of my rather elderly neighbors with whom I share an elevator in my condo complex.

The looks on the faces of these old fucks(male and female) when she and I would make out like crazy in the elevator was pretty fucking priceless. At one point, the stares were so nasty, I actually interrupted our kissing and said, “She’s my daughter” and then we resumed.

But for all of you horny old fucks who want to get with very young women, here are my top tips:

1. Do not compliment on looks or directly mention her attractiveness
2. Do not ask them out on “dates”. Offer to “hang out”
3. Demonstrate understanding of her world AND the ability to teach her things she doesn’t know and can’t learn from men her own age. My lovely Swede was very curious about my work(she had read about me in the Swedish version of “The Game”) and very eager to learn.
4. Forget about hanging out with her friends; your world and her world only meet when you and she are together
5. Make sure you know all the right spots to touch; boys her age haven’t got a clue and think shoving their fingers in and out of her is what gets her going. Teach her about the actual size of her clit(did you know that the visible part of the clit is just a very smart part of a rather huge organ?)

Finally, as far as Speed Seduction(R) goes, stay away from the deeper “connection” patterns. Focus on escape, adventure and indulgence as themes, and offer plenty of quizzes, demos, etc.



And if you can find a Swede, don’t forget to tell her, “Jag ha vill din fitta”. Then follow through and make sure you do!

Peace and piece,



RJ
93/93

P.S. Do you know what this classy young lady did once she was safely back in England? She texted me a lovely message that said, in part, “I hope the bed isn’t too empty without a hot 19 year old craving for your big cock”. Now, does she know how to make a man feel good or what? She could give lessons to the women of America and especially the women of LA. Jag saknar dig, M. Jag saknar dig.

P.P.S. The Nail Your Inner Game Program is flying off the shelves! Get yours now!

Guys,

This is a video response to a question/email from a student on the member’s only Yahoo group. He wanted to know how he could overcome his fear of approaching women and be “dominant”. Here is a video of my answer:

RJ

Hey guys,

Anyone who gives you something for “nothing” probably has something up their sleeve and I am no exception.

That is why I am SELFISHLY giving away a 90 minute recording of a power packed webinar/teleseminar I did titled, “How To Quadruple Your Seduction Success”-because I have an ulterior motive and here it is:

I AM FRICKING SICK OF THE IMITATORS, LOSERS, LIARS AND CON-MEN WHO ARE TRYING TO MUSCLE IN ON THE PICKUP/SEDUCTION BIZ WITH THEIR BS CRAP.

So I figure the only way to convince you that I am someone worth listening to(and eventually buying from) is to give enough free stuff away that you can try for yourself and see from the moist, pink, living proof in your bed that…

……………………………………I Am The One, True Seduction Guru!

So here is the link to listen, anytime, in complete privacy, 24 hours a day:

http://ds1.downloadtech.net/cn1086/audio/1506178499525-001.mp3

The only thing I ask is that you share this link with your friends and anyone else you think could use the help.

Peace and piece,
RJ