Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Way back before there was an on line dating advice/pick-up girls/seduction community(how is that for loading an article with key words??) there was just Eric Weber's classic book "How To Pick Up Girls".

I remember reading back when I was in college(and still a virgin!) and I found the lines to be ludicrous. I couldn’t even imagine using any of them, much less actually using them as a model for what to say to meet women.

But one thing I've discovered is that you actually CAN say some of the dumbest lines in the world and actually have them work, IF you do something else first.

What is that something else?  Simple: BEFORE you say the idiotic, corny line, say something dull, routine, normal, even boring. If you are standing in line at Starbucks, ask her to please pass you the milk. If she is carrying a handbag, comment on it, matter of factly, without any attempt to be funny or stylish in the comment.Then you pause, look at her with a puzzled look, and DELIVER THE STUPID PICK UP LINE. 

It works like this:

You: Nice shoes

Her: Thanks

You: You aren’t Jamaican, are you?

Her: No

You: Cuz you're jamaican me crazy.

You: Ok, that is the second dumbest thing I've said all week to meet someone I might really like.

Then proceed onward with some of the methods I teach in my Speed Seduction courses

The bottom line here is that effective behaviors require the right sequence and the right ingredients. Dumb pick up lines work, IF they are delivered after the common comment. Check it out for yourself and report back here on how you do.

Peace and piece,RJ

P.S. If you have a dumb-ass pick up line that you’ve used, please post it here on the blog.

P.P.S. If you don't have my Gold Walk Up DVD you are really missing out on easily meeting a constant stream of available and willing women.   

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,



It is amazing to me how many whining, snotty key-board jockeys have sent me hate-mail about my recent appearance on the Dr. Phil Show.



If you missed it, you can probably find a link to the video somewhere on line. I don’t care to abuse someone else’s intellectual property, and frankly waste the bandwith.

But if you are at all familiar with the people who hurl shit my way, I get bashed for being cranky, critical of others, knocking the work of other “gurus” and all I can say to that is:

.…………………Bite Me On The Ass, Boys-I SAVE LIVES

Now look: people have advised me to stop criticizing the work of others. That it makes me look fragile or threatened.

Well, no: what I am is pissed off. Pissed off that these phonies and cons are wasting the time and money of guys who need help far beyond what these idiots have even a clue about providing.



I know from training and teaching thousands of men, just how deeply stuck many guys are, and it infuriates me to see some of these pretend teachers mislead, misdirect, and mess up the minds of people who turn to them, often as a last resort.



So I am going to challenge every other so-called “pick-up/seduction” teacher, expert, guru etc out there.

Show me just one-ONE video-of a guy like this student of mine; a formerly suicidal virgin with no social contacts or social skills-that YOUR work turned around, the way my work turned this guy around. At the time of taping this, he’d slept with 16 women, including a lesbian, using Speed Seduction(R).

C’mon. If your stuff works for guys really on the ropes, SHOW ME THE PROOF. I’ll write a check for $1000 to your favorite charity for every video you can show me that meets these conditions.



Not some guys right after a seminar saying how much they enjoyed it.



Not videos of YOU picking up women.

Show me ONE video of a student who was in a condition close to condition of the guy in this video, telling how YOUR work turned HIM around.



Or shut up, and sit down. Or better yet get the hell out of town. Guys need real help. Not your bullshit.

Peace and piece,
RJ



P.S. If you want my best product for turning your inner game around, check out my Nail Your Inner Game program.

Guys,

There’s a link on this blog to some chick’s sociology thesis which she wrote on the seduction community. Brainy chicks fuck good, in my experience, so I’d like to “meat” her one day.

Here’s the link:

Peace and piece,

RJ