Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

As I point out in my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course, one of the keys to energy-efficient, low effort(read “lazy ass”) seduction where the women do most of the work is applying the 3 “S’s”: Screening, Selectivity, and Standards.

Today I was at the local Starbucks for some late morning coffee, when I put this principle into effect.

You see, as I was enjoying my medium-size espresso add-shot I started casually chatting with a woman in her mid-thirties who turned out to be Polish.

Now, to look at, this lady was pretty hot.

But then she opened her mouth.

She told me about her childhood, where she lived in a town on the German/Polish border called “Frankenstein”.   How she used to play in the shadow of the Castle. How the memories of the cold and the shadows still call to her at times in her mind.

You think I’m making this up, don’t you?

No.  Remember, I live in LA. Fruit-loops and hooples like this are the rule, not the exception.

But here is the thing: back when I was utterly clueless about women, I would have jumped at the chance to get into the short and curlies of a girl who looked this good. I had no process for screening women, and I had no standards, and no selectivity.

Today?  Well, assuming for a moment that I didn’t have my lovely and smoking hot Swedish sweetheart, Pernilla, and that I was single again, even then I wouldn’t touch this “Young Frankensteinette” with a ten foot pole.  I know how difficult whack-jobs can be, and they are actually, contrary to rumour, awful in bed.

(If of course your view of sex is that it is only about stimulation and discharging your load, you might see it differently than I.  Personally, it has to be more than a living centerfold come to life so I can use their body to jack off).

Here is the biggest irony: the more selective a man is, the greater the selection a man has.

A hard path to follow when you  haven’t been touched by a woman in a long time, but exercising that awareness and discipline in action can swing your bedroom door wide open to a fabulous flow of cuties who are also damn fine human beings.

Peace, piece and Merry Fukken’ Babyjesusbirthday

RJ

P.S. Check out your 3.0 Course here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Last night as I was laying in bed with my smoking hot Swedish girlfriend, Pernilla, she turned to me and said:

"Du ar min snuskig hummer".

Translated from the Swedish, it means, "You are my filthy lobster".

Now, I have no real idea what the actual meaning of that Swedish idiom means.  But what I do know is that I deeply enjoy Pernilla because she not only has a wacky sense of humor, but because she is deeply open to life, comfortable with her sexuality, and has a genuine sense of adventure.

Do I tell you this to make you jealous of my situation with my Svenska sweetheart?

Of course I do-I’m a guy, and guys love to brag about their hot women, right?

But really, I do it to make a point:  you don’t need to be afraid of "getting caught" when you pick a woman with the right personality traits. 

The reality for all of you guys who are afraid of "getting caught" is that healthy women-the women most fun to be with-WANT to be seduced if it is done skillfully.

In Pernilla’s case, not only did I NOT have to fear "getting caught", but she actually knew who I was and what I did for a living before she met me. She had read about me in the Swedish version of "The Game" and found it all intriguing.

So what is my main point? Pick the right kind of women.  Put it into your mind that you will seek out women who are comfortable with their sexuality and enjoy being seduced.

But keep your snuskig hander off of my Pernilla if you are ever lucky enough to meet her.  She’s mine….got that?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The quickest, most powerful and efficient way to reprogram your beliefs, behaviors, attitudes and actions to bring you massive success and satisfaction with women is my Nail Your Inner Game program.  Join the elite group of guys who are powering their way to seduction success with this cutting edge technology. 

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Sometimes guys want to learn more than to pick up women, master seduction, and get hot women into bed.

The other day on my clients-ony Yahoo group, a guy made a post asking for tips on how to get women to buy him, and I quote "lots of stuff".

That’s right.  He doesn’t just want to be  a master of seduction. He wants to be a master of acquisition as well.

Now, I’m all for choosing women who treat you well.  Hell, using Speed Seduction, you can easily take your pick of the women you really want. And if that means women who have $$$ to spend and who spend it on you, more power to you.

However….this guy is making one huge, fundamental error in his thinking about women.

You see, as I explain my report Ten Fatal Mistakes With Women, mistake #1 is focusing on the behaviors you want women to do, rather than the states of mind and emotions from which women would eagerly give you all those behaviors.

Do you get this distinction? It is the emotions a woman feels and her state of mind that determines what she will do.

So learn to create those strong emotional states of fascination, desire, lust, connection and "do this right now".  From those states, she’s far more likely to bounce your bedsprings and think it is HER idea.  And when you want to persuade anyone to do anything it’s always best when….

....They Think It’s Their Own Idea!

(I’ll note in a rather self-congratulatory way that Speed Seduction(R) teaches understandings you can use in any area of life.  Try that with Misery Method or Double Your Masturbating)

Now, there’s one more crucial piece here that really will help you in your quest for satisfaction with women, and it will help this guy as well.

And here it is: make sure you pick good material to work with.

If a woman is inherently a selfish person-if her idea of giving is sharing her herpes-then you aren’t going to transform her into a loving, giving human being.

Or as someone once said to me, "You can polish a brick all day long, but you’ll never shine it into being a mirror".

But you know what?

I’d like to know what YOU think. Has it been your experience that you’ve overfocused way too much on what you want women to do, as opposed to focusing on the emotional states you’d like them to be in?  In what way has overfocusing on their behavior blocked your cock?

Post your comments below me, ok?

Piece and peace,

RJ

P.S. Normally, I require you give me your name and email address to get my 10 Fatal Mistakes Report.  But screw it.  If I’m really going to "move the free line" I may as well start making this kind of thing TOTALLY free. Which means not only not charging money, but also not asking for anything from you, including an email address.  Go ahead and sample my wares TRULY for free. Just  click the link to get your 32 Page FMR right now.

P.P.S. Please subscribe to this blog to start seeing just how far I "move the free line".  I intend to give away lots more in the weeks and months to come to really prove that I’m the top teacher in this community and that Speed Seduction is the top tech for success and satisfaction with women.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, I discuss one of the three aspects of consciousness I believe you must cultivate for massive success in any area of life that has been formerly frustrating and limiting.

Of course, in this context, we mean success with women. But it could apply to any area of life in which you have, up to now, been pretty stuck.

Look: it isn’t enough to have a good road map to follow.  That is required, but by itself, it isn’t enough.

This video explains why and what to do.  

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Nail Your Inner Game course that I mention in the video.