Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is my considered opinion that all women are whores.

Does that sound hateful to you?

Well it’s time for you to grow up and open your eyes.

Wonderful Human Organisms Requiring Erotic Satisfaction

Now if you think I’m being a little cute or tricky in this ezine issue, ok, I conceed the point.

But sometimes we guys get so into our complex theories of how women work, or even more so, get so caught up in our fantasies and ideals about them, we forget that basically, biologically…

…Women Want To Get Their Erotic Needs Met As
Strongly And Urgently And Deeply As We Do!

Now please don’t get me wrong; I’m as far from a politically correct “men and women are totally equal” feminist as you can get. Men and women are NOT equal or the same. The psychology of men and women around sex and love DOES differ.

We can argue all day long whether that is due to social conditioning or biology or both, and to what degree and extent, but personally I’d rather enjoy watching paint dry.

What I can say is that is demonstrably true that women, for the most part, crave sexual satisfaction as much or maybe even more than we do.

So never forget in all of the theory and practice, the bottom line: women want to be satisfied between the sheets, against the wall, on the table, and most importantly, IN THE COOTCH AND THE HEART.

A big start to this is knowing how to touch a woman to get her smoking hot in seconds. To find out more, check out my Irresistible Arousal DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, I discuss one of the three aspects of consciousness I believe you must cultivate for massive success in any area of life that has been formerly frustrating and limiting.

Of course, in this context, we mean success with women. But it could apply to any area of life in which you have, up to now, been pretty stuck.

Look: it isn’t enough to have a good road map to follow.  That is required, but by itself, it isn’t enough.

This video explains why and what to do.  

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Nail Your Inner Game course that I mention in the video.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

One of the questions I’m sometimes asked is, “What do you think of Tom Leykis and Leykis 101?”

For those of you who don’t know, Leykis has an enormously popular syndicated radio talk show(he’s on 97.1 FM here in Southern California) where he mostly preaches his misogynist doctrine on success with women, called Leykis 101.

While Leykis talks about the importance of having game, which is certainly important, it his definition of what game is that is troublesome and twisted.

Essentially Leykis believes that women are attracted mostly to men with money, and that women have sex not because they mostly enjoy it, but to latch on to a man and use him as a meal ticket. And he further believes that by treating women like trash, they will feel the need to validate themselves by sleeping with the men who treat them in this fashion.

For him, game is therefore about lying to women about your social-economic status to make yourself more appealing and treating women like doo doo.

What isn’t stated in all of this is what I actually find most troubling; that sex is basically about dumping your load on or into someone who visually excites you but emotionally repels you. It’s about stimulation and discharge and nothing more; a sort of very vivid and interactive jack-off.

Isn’t it interesting? His view of women and how they should be treated, matches up and reflects his experience of sex. If you hold people as contemptible then how could you view joining with them intimately as something other than contemptible at worst, or merely mechanical build up and release at best?

And beyond that, his ideas are inaccurate to be generous about it. The biggest inaccuracy that women don’t enjoy and crave sex for its own sake, and that pretending to be able to buy them is the best way to go about things.

Very sad for Tom and for those listeners he badly misleads. For those of us who know how to capture and lead womens’ imagination and emotions, we know how utterly unnecessary the contempt and the lying is, and how grateful women are to be lead to the kinds of wonderful feelings they deeply crave.

Dump the hate, Tom. And open up your mind.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are a Leykis listener I especially invite your comments.