Ross Jeffries Uncensored

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,



Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.



However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.



And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.



And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.



If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.



Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.



‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

One of the questions I’m sometimes asked is, “What do you think of Tom Leykis and Leykis 101?”

For those of you who don’t know, Leykis has an enormously popular syndicated radio talk show(he’s on 97.1 FM here in Southern California) where he mostly preaches his misogynist doctrine on success with women, called Leykis 101.

While Leykis talks about the importance of having game, which is certainly important, it his definition of what game is that is troublesome and twisted.

Essentially Leykis believes that women are attracted mostly to men with money, and that women have sex not because they mostly enjoy it, but to latch on to a man and use him as a meal ticket. And he further believes that by treating women like trash, they will feel the need to validate themselves by sleeping with the men who treat them in this fashion.

For him, game is therefore about lying to women about your social-economic status to make yourself more appealing and treating women like doo doo.

What isn’t stated in all of this is what I actually find most troubling; that sex is basically about dumping your load on or into someone who visually excites you but emotionally repels you. It’s about stimulation and discharge and nothing more; a sort of very vivid and interactive jack-off.

Isn’t it interesting? His view of women and how they should be treated, matches up and reflects his experience of sex. If you hold people as contemptible then how could you view joining with them intimately as something other than contemptible at worst, or merely mechanical build up and release at best?

And beyond that, his ideas are inaccurate to be generous about it. The biggest inaccuracy that women don’t enjoy and crave sex for its own sake, and that pretending to be able to buy them is the best way to go about things.

Very sad for Tom and for those listeners he badly misleads. For those of us who know how to capture and lead womens’ imagination and emotions, we know how utterly unnecessary the contempt and the lying is, and how grateful women are to be lead to the kinds of wonderful feelings they deeply crave.

Dump the hate, Tom. And open up your mind.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are a Leykis listener I especially invite your comments.



Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,This video blog post is about the important distinction between being clever and crafty in the use of your language and being sneaky in your seduction intent.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Sometimes the truth comes to us in odd forms and odd ways, delivered by some very bent messengers.

Case in point this hilarious video; this woman is clearly crazed, but she is also speaking truth.

Enjoy, and let me know if you think YOU have “Penis Power” as she describes it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction Student(R)

I am truly starting to hate Vacaville, CA.

No-I take that back. Vacaville is not bad enough to hate. Hot. Boring. Air heavy with the smoke of nearby fires.

But Vacaville I can only dislike.

It is SAAB I am starting to hate.

To fix the broken air conditioning compressor and all the attendant damage will cost around $2500.

Now, SAABS are lots of fun. Move like the wind. Handle like you wouldn’t believe.

But they are VERY high maintenence. Costly. Expensive to maintain. Incredibly expensive to repair.

I really have to ask myself, “Is all the fun and high performance worth the bother?”. And right now, I truly don’t know.

Now, what in the world does this have to do with YOU being more successful with women?

Just this: do YOU know what YOU are looking for when it comes to the emotional and psychological characteristics of the woman/women you want to be with?

Are you willing to put up with a fast-moving, slick model that is constantly having “emotional” breakdowns and in need of high maintainence like my SAAB?

And what kind of characteristics will YOU have to display and take on, in order to match those of the woman/women who have the characteristics you desire?

One thing I’ve said many times, and it is a paradox: the more selective a man is, the greater selection he has.

You see, not only will screening women for the right psychological characteristics insure that you are much happier. But screening women makes you much more appealing and keeps YOU in the “drivers seat”.

Unlike me, who is still stuck in this flea-bag, smoke-infested, inferno called Vacaville.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction (R) Student,

There isn’t a whole hell of a lot to do in Vacaville, CA. I know, because this is where I’m spending the last days of the 4th of July weekend.

Here is the scoop: this weekend I thought I’d get the hell out of Marina del Rey and take a long drive to visit some friends up in northern California. And also, because the Marina is swamped with 50,000 tourists who destroy my neighborhood as they party, litter, and defecate all over the place while watching our award winning(and tax dollar burning) fireworks show.

But also because I wanted to have plenty of time to think about my beloved father, Irv, who died a little over 2 weeks ago. Somehow driving through Interstate 5, which is mostly desert, helps me think-there really is not much to see on that journey.

Losing my Dad is a very big deal, you see, and I wanted to think about what his life meant, what he contributed to me that lives on, what passed on with him etc. etc.

But headed back to LA, my lovely SAAB blew a radiator hose on I-80, and I slid off the freeway to a lonely road that quite literally was in the middle of nowhere; it might as well have been the intersection of Bumfuck and TwilightZone.

Now, I should say the folks here in Vacaville are very friendly to stranded Seduction Gurus by the side of the road-in the 45 minutes I waited for the tow-truck, 4 different cars stopped to offer assistance. The last one was a van occupied by a woman and her teen-age daughter who insisted on waiting with me until Triple A arrived.

It seems, you see, that I was right near a state park that is frequented by mountain lions. Just what I need; to be eaten by a big pussy on the outskirts of Vacaville, CA.

But you know what?

Vacaville isn’t that bad. Sure, there is virtually nothing to do here compared to the excitement and endless stimulation of LA. And there certainly isn’t the parade of gorgeous women you see in Los Angeles either

But the folks here are just the same as the folks anywhere in the world. They have hopes and dreams. Fears and expectations. And I’m sure the guys here are as wanting to attract and enjoy hot women(if there were any) as guys are wanting to attract and enjoy hot women all over the world.

And they are probably, percentage-wise, almost equally clueless and in desperate need of my help. If they knew what even my most newbie students knew about how to meet and attract hot women, they’d be cleaning up with all the hotties in town…er…well, they’d be cleaning up with what passes for hot in Vacaville instead of relying on whatever dumb pick up lines or dating tips they’ve been using.

So what am I going to do here in Vacaville until the repair shop opens tomorrow morning? I’m going to do what I set out to do.

I’m going to think a lot about my father and his life. If I see any hot women worthy of it, I’ll practice my sarging skills(hey, nothing wrong with a little c*nt-teasing now and again).

And if any of my students are in the Sacramento/SF/Oakland area and you want to meet up with me, tonight, Sunday, July 6, I’ll be in the lobby of the Hampton Inn right off of I-80 and we’ll hold a meet and greet.

And raise a glass to the memory of my Dad, who use to take my little brother Steve and I on silly-ass road trips not too different from this one when we were just kids.

Peace and piece, RJ

P.S. Like I said, guys everywhere need help with women; as the tow truck driver was taking me to the hotel, we passed the one open “club” on Main Street in Vacaville, where the guys were standing outside, smoking cigarettes, trying to work up the courage to talk to the girls outside who were smoking cigarettes. If only they had my Gold Walk Up DVD so they could meet women anytime anywhere and never worry about what to say. And yes, goddamn it, that was shameless plugs. Upkeeping Swedish cars(and girlfriends) is expensive as hell.

Dear Speed Seducers(R)

Not long ago, I released my 32 page report, “Ten Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women”.

I’ve gotten very good feedback on the report, and the coolest thing is, it shouldn’t take more than a minute per page to read it.

So if you haven’t got it, go here right now to do so. And please, pass on this link to your friends. I need to get the word out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Your Speed Seduction(R) Home Study course will be off the market soon as I introduce the 3.0 Course. So if you don’t have the classic course, you better get it now.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Way back before there was an on line dating advice/pick-up girls/seduction community(how is that for loading an article with key words??) there was just Eric Weber's classic book "How To Pick Up Girls".

I remember reading back when I was in college(and still a virgin!) and I found the lines to be ludicrous. I couldn’t even imagine using any of them, much less actually using them as a model for what to say to meet women.

But one thing I've discovered is that you actually CAN say some of the dumbest lines in the world and actually have them work, IF you do something else first.

What is that something else?  Simple: BEFORE you say the idiotic, corny line, say something dull, routine, normal, even boring. If you are standing in line at Starbucks, ask her to please pass you the milk. If she is carrying a handbag, comment on it, matter of factly, without any attempt to be funny or stylish in the comment.Then you pause, look at her with a puzzled look, and DELIVER THE STUPID PICK UP LINE. 

It works like this:

You: Nice shoes

Her: Thanks

You: You aren’t Jamaican, are you?

Her: No

You: Cuz you're jamaican me crazy.

You: Ok, that is the second dumbest thing I've said all week to meet someone I might really like.

Then proceed onward with some of the methods I teach in my Speed Seduction courses

The bottom line here is that effective behaviors require the right sequence and the right ingredients. Dumb pick up lines work, IF they are delivered after the common comment. Check it out for yourself and report back here on how you do.

Peace and piece,RJ

P.S. If you have a dumb-ass pick up line that you’ve used, please post it here on the blog.

P.P.S. If you don't have my Gold Walk Up DVD you are really missing out on easily meeting a constant stream of available and willing women.   

Guys,

As I promised, I am going back through the 12 part free Speed Seduction(R) video course on Youtube and adding in my personal commentary and notes. The second video is now ready. Just click to watch it on Youtube and please tell your friends about it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Please help me spread the word and pass the video link on. Let me know how you like the video, leave comments on Youtube or here.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve decided to slowly, one at a time, re-open the Introductory Speed Seduction Language Video course on my YouTube channel with a big difference; I am adding my own personal notes and commentary to the recorded videos, using a new YouTube feature.

If you play the video here on this blog, you will see that I have added notes that explain the key concepts I’m teaching, with some good additional instruction and useability to the video.

If I get good feedback here on the blog, I’ll do this with all 12 videos that make up the free course, so make sure you add your comments below. Me, I would appreciate it.

RJ

P.S. I intend to do every thing I can to deliver more and more quality feedback, instruction and support in every aspect of my business with you. This is a good step, I think, so give me your opinions.