Attractive Girls Union Refuses To Enter Into Talks With Mike Greenman

Dear Speed Seduction Students,

This just speaks for itself.  And it’s not that far off the mark.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. It really isn’t funny how guys have to beg for attention from women.  But when you know Speed Seduction(R), the dynamic gets reversed damned fast.  Say…I think I once did that blonde in the video…..

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It would be safe to say that I get some of the most interesting “fan mail” you could imagine.

Most of it is from people praising the brilliance of my work and offering thanks for what it has done for them. And I’m grateful for that.

Occasionally there is the request for free stuff, which I almost always turn down. (But make up a good story I’ve never heard before and who knows-you might get some free courses. But be warned-I’ve heard them all)

The ones I find most interesting are the hostile ones and the cries for help.

The hostile ones are usually filled with spelling-errors, grammatical mistakes, and vile suggestions about my ancestry, ethnicity, and personal anatomy.

The cries for help are sometimes overwhelming and always humbling. It would be no exaggeration to say that many guys are at the end of their proverbial rope when it comes to this issue of success with women.

So what do I say to that guy who has been crushed by his wife of 20 years having an affair and walking out on him, taking the kids with her too? What do I say to that guy who just turned 30 and has never had a girlfriend in his life?

The first thing I tell them is that everything they’ve been through up to this moment of writing me is true, real and valid. I don’t try to talk down or minimize their pain, fear and frustration. Nor do I give them trite, enraging advice like, “Look on the bright side” or “You’ll find someone”.

The next thing I tell them is this: everything you’ve experienced up until now was based on the tools, information, technology and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now. Change any of those things, and you’ll get much different results.

Anyone who had the tools, technology, information and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now would have gotten the same results you’ve gotten and could not have done any better.

Then I tell them this: what’s possible for a person with the right tools, technology, information and ways of thinking would seem like magic to someone who doesn’t have them. Just think of a primitive tribesman in some rainforest in Brazil who has never seen an airplane. If you told them you could get across their entire country in 2 hours, they’d laugh at you.

Usually that begins to create just enough doubt in their prior conviction that they are hopeless that I can get some leverage into their mind and explain what really works with women, as opposed to what they’ve been stuck thinking and doing. And then I recommend my Triple Threat Offer (which you can read about in this link).

But you know, this weekend, at my niece’s wedding, I heard a metaphor that really struck me. I’m going to share it with those “cries for help” guys from now on, and I’d like to share it with you. It’s about the power of the human spirit to be remade, reshaped, and renewed no matter how seemingly broken.

You see, at a Jewish wedding, one of the final bits of ceremony is that the groom steps on a glass and breaks it. There are many interpretations of what this symbolic act means.

But the Rabbi at my niece’s wedding explained it like this. “The human spirit-a person’s life-is like a glass. No matter how seemingly broken, smashed to pieces or shattered apart, glass can always be gathered up, re-melted, and shaped into something beautiful again.”

Now that metaphor really struck me. And you know, in the work I’ve done, I’ve seen it to be true.

I’ve seen guys who thought their divorce was the worst nightmare, only to see later how they’d been set free to use these wonderful tools to enjoy happiness, success and satisfaction with women of a quality they’d never imagined they could have.

I’ve seen guys go from suicidal despair to dancing with joy at how happy the women in their lives are making them.

I guess I now have a new metaphor for my own job: glass smelter and glass maker. But don’t you dare call me a glass “blower” or we are going to have problems.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Triple Threat Offer and my Nail Your Inner Game Program. Two great offers to begin re-shaping the glass of your love life:

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There are few things as pleasant in this life as waking up next to a smoking hot 19 year old beauty who is as nuts about you as you are about her.

My lovely Swedish girlfriend has returned to me, after being gone for 2 months, and I can tell you it feels wonderful to be with her again.

And, as I write this, just 2 hours after she’s left for the day…

…I Am Exhausted!

Look: I’ve never been that good at having someone sleep in my bed. Having fun and dirty adult indulgence, sure.

But actually sleeping?

No, I prefer to sleep alone. And in the case of “Pernilla”, my young Swedish goddess/girl, it usually takes me a couple of days to acclimate to having her in the sack with me as me actually go to dream-land.

So right now, I’ve spent my second night only getting about 4 hours and my body hurts. I can feel cramping in my legs, my neck muscles are twitching and there is an overall tired sensation throughout my entire body.

Here is the interesting thing: sleep deprivation of any kind used to make me totally psycho.

(Hey, if you are a Ross hater, spare me the hate mail telling me I AM psycho).

It used to be that if I didn’t get at least 7 hours a night, my state would deteriorate rapidly, I’d get moody, emotional, and pretty non-functional.

Whereas today, while I don’t like it or prefer it, I can handle it. I can move with it and through it and because I can be fully aware of all of the tired sensations, without fighting them, it simply is something I can handle instead of freaking out about.

What is the point of all this with regards to your continuing quest for moist-pink success with the lovely ladies you desire?

Just this: in your journey towards success with women, you will have many moments where you have to deal with some difficult emotions.

You’ll experience frustration.

You’ll experience anger.

And I can tell you, for certain, you’ll experience some serious confusion.

But you know what? If you refuse to tell yourself disempowering stories about it-if you refrain from taking the meaning that you are a “loser” or that it isn’t worth it or that women are all “bitches” are whatever, then you have a chance at learning to have much better responses to it all.

What does that mean?

It means that what used to stop you or burden you simply becomes fuel for progress, success and learning. And that even the most difficult emotions and frustrating experiences become fantastic tools for self-education, self-knowing, and learning about who you really are and whom you really can become.

You see, because Speed Seduction® isn’t just about a bunch of routines or behaviors that you go out and do, it requires more from you than all the other programs out there. It requires that you learn deeply about who you are, and transform the person you are as you challenge yourself to grow beyond your own fixed patterns and the horrible brainwashing around sex and women that the world has been feeding you.

So it may require a lot more work on yourself than “Double Your Masturbating” or “Misery Method”.

But throwing off your chains and becoming the best you can be is worth it. As are of course, the women.

Off to take my nap now.

Piece, Peace and Hej Dar(it’s Swedish for “see you later”),

RJ