Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It would be safe to say that I get some of the most interesting “fan mail” you could imagine.

Most of it is from people praising the brilliance of my work and offering thanks for what it has done for them. And I’m grateful for that.

Occasionally there is the request for free stuff, which I almost always turn down. (But make up a good story I’ve never heard before and who knows-you might get some free courses. But be warned-I’ve heard them all)

The ones I find most interesting are the hostile ones and the cries for help.

The hostile ones are usually filled with spelling-errors, grammatical mistakes, and vile suggestions about my ancestry, ethnicity, and personal anatomy.

The cries for help are sometimes overwhelming and always humbling. It would be no exaggeration to say that many guys are at the end of their proverbial rope when it comes to this issue of success with women.

So what do I say to that guy who has been crushed by his wife of 20 years having an affair and walking out on him, taking the kids with her too? What do I say to that guy who just turned 30 and has never had a girlfriend in his life?

The first thing I tell them is that everything they’ve been through up to this moment of writing me is true, real and valid. I don’t try to talk down or minimize their pain, fear and frustration. Nor do I give them trite, enraging advice like, “Look on the bright side” or “You’ll find someone”.

The next thing I tell them is this: everything you’ve experienced up until now was based on the tools, information, technology and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now. Change any of those things, and you’ll get much different results.

Anyone who had the tools, technology, information and ways of thinking you’ve had up until now would have gotten the same results you’ve gotten and could not have done any better.

Then I tell them this: what’s possible for a person with the right tools, technology, information and ways of thinking would seem like magic to someone who doesn’t have them. Just think of a primitive tribesman in some rainforest in Brazil who has never seen an airplane. If you told them you could get across their entire country in 2 hours, they’d laugh at you.

Usually that begins to create just enough doubt in their prior conviction that they are hopeless that I can get some leverage into their mind and explain what really works with women, as opposed to what they’ve been stuck thinking and doing. And then I recommend my Triple Threat Offer (which you can read about in this link).

But you know, this weekend, at my niece’s wedding, I heard a metaphor that really struck me. I’m going to share it with those “cries for help” guys from now on, and I’d like to share it with you. It’s about the power of the human spirit to be remade, reshaped, and renewed no matter how seemingly broken.

You see, at a Jewish wedding, one of the final bits of ceremony is that the groom steps on a glass and breaks it. There are many interpretations of what this symbolic act means.

But the Rabbi at my niece’s wedding explained it like this. “The human spirit-a person’s life-is like a glass. No matter how seemingly broken, smashed to pieces or shattered apart, glass can always be gathered up, re-melted, and shaped into something beautiful again.”

Now that metaphor really struck me. And you know, in the work I’ve done, I’ve seen it to be true.

I’ve seen guys who thought their divorce was the worst nightmare, only to see later how they’d been set free to use these wonderful tools to enjoy happiness, success and satisfaction with women of a quality they’d never imagined they could have.

I’ve seen guys go from suicidal despair to dancing with joy at how happy the women in their lives are making them.

I guess I now have a new metaphor for my own job: glass smelter and glass maker. But don’t you dare call me a glass “blower” or we are going to have problems.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Triple Threat Offer and my Nail Your Inner Game Program. Two great offers to begin re-shaping the glass of your love life:

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is my considered opinion that all women are whores.

Does that sound hateful to you?

Well it’s time for you to grow up and open your eyes.

Wonderful Human Organisms Requiring Erotic Satisfaction

Now if you think I’m being a little cute or tricky in this ezine issue, ok, I conceed the point.

But sometimes we guys get so into our complex theories of how women work, or even more so, get so caught up in our fantasies and ideals about them, we forget that basically, biologically…

…Women Want To Get Their Erotic Needs Met As
Strongly And Urgently And Deeply As We Do!

Now please don’t get me wrong; I’m as far from a politically correct “men and women are totally equal” feminist as you can get. Men and women are NOT equal or the same. The psychology of men and women around sex and love DOES differ.

We can argue all day long whether that is due to social conditioning or biology or both, and to what degree and extent, but personally I’d rather enjoy watching paint dry.

What I can say is that is demonstrably true that women, for the most part, crave sexual satisfaction as much or maybe even more than we do.

So never forget in all of the theory and practice, the bottom line: women want to be satisfied between the sheets, against the wall, on the table, and most importantly, IN THE COOTCH AND THE HEART.

A big start to this is knowing how to touch a woman to get her smoking hot in seconds. To find out more, check out my Irresistible Arousal DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, I discuss one of the three aspects of consciousness I believe you must cultivate for massive success in any area of life that has been formerly frustrating and limiting.

Of course, in this context, we mean success with women. But it could apply to any area of life in which you have, up to now, been pretty stuck.

Look: it isn’t enough to have a good road map to follow.  That is required, but by itself, it isn’t enough.

This video explains why and what to do.  

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Nail Your Inner Game course that I mention in the video.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.