Archive for the ‘dating advice’ Category

Are All Women WHORES?

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is my considered opinion that all women are whores.

Does that sound hateful to you?

Well it’s time for you to grow up and open your eyes.

All women are W.H.O.R.E.S.

Wonderful Human Organisms Requiring Erotic Satisfaction

Now if you think I’m being a little cute or tricky in this ezine issue, ok, I conceed the point.

But sometimes we guys get so into our complex theories of how women work, or even more so, get so caught up in our fantasies and ideals about them, we forget that basically, biologically…

…Women Want To Get Their Erotic Needs Met As
Strongly And Urgently And Deeply As We Do!

Now please don’t get me wrong; I’m as far from a politically correct “men and women are totally equal” feminist as you can get. Men and women are NOT equal or the same. The psychology of men and women around sex and love DOES differ.

We can argue all day long whether that is due to social conditioning or biology or both, and to what degree and extent, but personally I’d rather enjoy watching paint dry.

What I can say is that is demonstrably true that women, for the most part, crave sexual satisfaction as much or maybe even more than we do.

So never forget in all of the theory and practice, the bottom line: women want to be satisfied between the sheets, against the wall, on the table, and most importantly, IN THE COOTCH AND THE HEART.

A big start to this is knowing how to touch a woman to get her smoking hot in seconds. To find out more, check out my Irresistible Arousal DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Cultivating Consciousness For Massive Seduction Success: Part I

Monday, August 4th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, I discuss one of the three aspects of consciousness I believe you must cultivate for massive success in any area of life that has been formerly frustrating and limiting.

Of course, in this context, we mean success with women. But it could apply to any area of life in which you have, up to now, been pretty stuck.

Look: it isn’t enough to have a good road map to follow.  That is required, but by itself, it isn’t enough.

This video explains why and what to do.  

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Check out my Nail Your Inner Game course that I mention in the video.

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Leykis Loonies Want My Head!

Wednesday, July 23rd, 2008

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

That last sentence is so important I am going to repeat in all caps for you Leykettes to ponder at length over your beer and bologna sandwiches:

WHAT YOU SET AS YOUR VISION WILL BE THE LIMITS OF YOUR EXPERIENCE



If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

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Secrets Of Continuous Conversation: How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say: Part III

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of this ongoing ezine series, I explained how getting her doing most of the talking is a key to you never running out of things to say and a good way to get her doing most of the seduction work.

Now let’s get to tip #3:

Secrets Of Continuous Conversation Tip #3:
Know What To Topics To Discuss When You Are Going
To Be Talking
Before I give you this tip, it’s crucial that I make a distinction: this isn’t just about never running out of things to say. It’s about saying things and getting her talking in ways that capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

A good general rule here is that if what you are discussing can be put on a chart or a graph or a prospectus or resume…

…It Is Probably Not Going To Capture And Lead Her Imagination And Emotions

There is a half-truth floating around out there that says men are not as verbal as women.

The full truth is that we guys are just as verbal, but our language tends to be factually based, referring to data, facts, figures, numbers etc.

When you want to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, you need to speak in language that addresses the right brain-the seat of emotions, fantasies, desires, etc.

And even more importantly, you need to be able to get a woman talking about these themes, topics and subjects, because when a woman talks about something…

…She Revives The Emotions And Feeling States Associated With That Topic

Have you ever had a woman start talking about a negative, painful subject and watch her mood progressively get worse and worse?

If you are a “nice guy” and have been the guy women dump their problems, complaints and pain on, you’ve probably witnessed this as you’ve suffered thorugh your career as her “emotional tampon”.

Don’t I just have a lovely way with metaphors that stick in your mind?

Anyway, since women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move-towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc.

Doesn’t that just make sense?

Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.

  • Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
  • Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
  • Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected

If you’d like to know all of the topics, and many easy ways to both speak about them and get women talking about them, all the way to your bed (or floor or couch), check out my Home Study Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Secrets Of Continuous Conversation: How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say, Part II

Thursday, July 17th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of the ezine series on Continuous Conversation I explained how turning down the lust and getting curious about her was crucial to never running out of things to say that also moves the seduction along.

Let’s jump to the next Continuous Conversation Principle:

Continuous Conversation Tip#2:
Get Her Doing Most Of The Talking

This dovetails perfectly with the first tip about getting curious about her and asking the right questions-obviously you are doing this to get her talking.

But what most guys don’t realize is that getting her talking instead of you dominating the conversation, is crucial for many reasons and that you ignore this one at your peril.

You see, not only does flapping your lips most of the time make her feel that you are not listening to her and seeing her as a real human being. It also causes you to ignore the very important tips and clues she is giving you about what she likes, what she responds to, what turns her on and also what turns her off.

Hell, some guys are so busy talking they don’t even notice it when a woman is actually hot and ready to go; they actually talk themselves out of her bed.

What’s that you’re thinking? “I’d never be that stupid, Ross”.

Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure.

What I’ve found is that by getting women talking about the right topics and themes and knowing how to intensify her feelings that come up from these conversations, I can usually get her to talk herself right through my front door. And you would be shocked (and perhaps disturbingly aroused) at how graphic these conversations get-and this is the key-on her part, not mine. My students report the same thing over and over and over again, so this has got to be a powerful principle.

Ignore it at your peril.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction ®

P.S. Your Home Study Course is waiting right here, filled with example after example of how to get her talking in the right direction and how to easily use what she gives you to make her hot and ready to jump you. Thousands of guys have got this course-how big of an advantage do they have on you?

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Have You Got Penis Power?

Monday, July 14th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Sometimes the truth comes to us in odd forms and odd ways, delivered by some very bent messengers.

Case in point this hilarious video; this woman is clearly crazed, but she is also speaking truth.

Enjoy, and let me know if you think YOU have “Penis Power” as she describes it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Stuck, Fukkhed and Stranded In Vacaville, CA

Sunday, July 6th, 2008

Lovely Downtown Vacaville

Dear Speed Seduction (R) Student,

There isn’t a whole hell of a lot to do in Vacaville, CA. I know, because this is where I’m spending the last days of the 4th of July weekend.

Here is the scoop: this weekend I thought I’d get the hell out of Marina del Rey and take a long drive to visit some friends up in northern California. And also, because the Marina is swamped with 50,000 tourists who destroy my neighborhood as they party, litter, and defecate all over the place while watching our award winning(and tax dollar burning) fireworks show.

But also because I wanted to have plenty of time to think about my beloved father, Irv, who died a little over 2 weeks ago. Somehow driving through Interstate 5, which is mostly desert, helps me think-there really is not much to see on that journey.

Losing my Dad is a very big deal, you see, and I wanted to think about what his life meant, what he contributed to me that lives on, what passed on with him etc. etc.

But headed back to LA, my lovely SAAB blew a radiator hose on I-80, and I slid off the freeway to a lonely road that quite literally was in the middle of nowhere; it might as well have been the intersection of Bumfuck and TwilightZone.

Now, I should say the folks here in Vacaville are very friendly to stranded Seduction Gurus by the side of the road-in the 45 minutes I waited for the tow-truck, 4 different cars stopped to offer assistance. The last one was a van occupied by a woman and her teen-age daughter who insisted on waiting with me until Triple A arrived.

It seems, you see, that I was right near a state park that is frequented by mountain lions. Just what I need; to be eaten by a big pussy on the outskirts of Vacaville, CA.

But you know what?

Vacaville isn’t that bad. Sure, there is virtually nothing to do here compared to the excitement and endless stimulation of LA. And there certainly isn’t the parade of gorgeous women you see in Los Angeles either

But the folks here are just the same as the folks anywhere in the world. They have hopes and dreams. Fears and expectations. And I’m sure the guys here are as wanting to attract and enjoy hot women(if there were any) as guys are wanting to attract and enjoy hot women all over the world.

And they are probably, percentage-wise, almost equally clueless and in desperate need of my help. If they knew what even my most newbie students knew about how to meet and attract hot women, they’d be cleaning up with all the hotties in town…er…well, they’d be cleaning up with what passes for hot in Vacaville instead of relying on whatever dumb pick up lines or dating tips they’ve been using.

So what am I going to do here in Vacaville until the repair shop opens tomorrow morning? I’m going to do what I set out to do.

I’m going to think a lot about my father and his life. If I see any hot women worthy of it, I’ll practice my sarging skills(hey, nothing wrong with a little c*nt-teasing now and again).

And if any of my students are in the Sacramento/SF/Oakland area and you want to meet up with me, tonight, Sunday, July 6, I’ll be in the lobby of the Hampton Inn right off of I-80 and we’ll hold a meet and greet.

And raise a glass to the memory of my Dad, who use to take my little brother Steve and I on silly-ass road trips not too different from this one when we were just kids.

Peace and piece, RJ

P.S. Like I said, guys everywhere need help with women; as the tow truck driver was taking me to the hotel, we passed the one open “club” on Main Street in Vacaville, where the guys were standing outside, smoking cigarettes, trying to work up the courage to talk to the girls outside who were smoking cigarettes. If only they had my Gold Walk Up DVD so they could meet women anytime anywhere and never worry about what to say. And yes, goddamn it, that was shameless plugs. Upkeeping Swedish cars(and girlfriends) is expensive as hell.

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32 Minutes To Complete Success With Women?

Monday, June 30th, 2008

Dear Speed Seducers(R)

Not long ago, I released my 32 page report, “Ten Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women”.

I’ve gotten very good feedback on the report, and the coolest thing is, it shouldn’t take more than a minute per page to read it.

So if you haven’t got it, go here right now to do so. And please, pass on this link to your friends. I need to get the word out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Your Speed Seduction(R) Home Study course will be off the market soon as I introduce the 3.0 Course. So if you don’t have the classic course, you better get it now.

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Making The Dumbest Pick Up Lines Effective

Saturday, June 28th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Way back before there was an on line dating advice/pick-up girls/seduction community(how is that for loading an article with key words??) there was just Eric Weber's classic book "How To Pick Up Girls".

I remember reading back when I was in college(and still a virgin!) and I found the lines to be ludicrous. I couldn’t even imagine using any of them, much less actually using them as a model for what to say to meet women.

But one thing I've discovered is that you actually CAN say some of the dumbest lines in the world and actually have them work, IF you do something else first.

What is that something else?  Simple: BEFORE you say the idiotic, corny line, say something dull, routine, normal, even boring. If you are standing in line at Starbucks, ask her to please pass you the milk. If she is carrying a handbag, comment on it, matter of factly, without any attempt to be funny or stylish in the comment.Then you pause, look at her with a puzzled look, and DELIVER THE STUPID PICK UP LINE. 

It works like this:

You: Nice shoes

Her: Thanks

You: You aren’t Jamaican, are you?

Her: No

You: Cuz you're jamaican me crazy.

You: Ok, that is the second dumbest thing I've said all week to meet someone I might really like.

Then proceed onward with some of the methods I teach in my Speed Seduction courses

The bottom line here is that effective behaviors require the right sequence and the right ingredients. Dumb pick up lines work, IF they are delivered after the common comment. Check it out for yourself and report back here on how you do.

Peace and piece,RJ

P.S. If you have a dumb-ass pick up line that you’ve used, please post it here on the blog.

P.P.S. If you don't have my Gold Walk Up DVD you are really missing out on easily meeting a constant stream of available and willing women.   

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