Ross Jeffries Uncensored

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There are few things as pleasant in this life as waking up next to a smoking hot 19 year old beauty who is as nuts about you as you are about her.

My lovely Swedish girlfriend has returned to me, after being gone for 2 months, and I can tell you it feels wonderful to be with her again.

And, as I write this, just 2 hours after she’s left for the day…

…I Am Exhausted!

Look: I’ve never been that good at having someone sleep in my bed. Having fun and dirty adult indulgence, sure.

But actually sleeping?

No, I prefer to sleep alone. And in the case of “Pernilla”, my young Swedish goddess/girl, it usually takes me a couple of days to acclimate to having her in the sack with me as me actually go to dream-land.

So right now, I’ve spent my second night only getting about 4 hours and my body hurts. I can feel cramping in my legs, my neck muscles are twitching and there is an overall tired sensation throughout my entire body.

Here is the interesting thing: sleep deprivation of any kind used to make me totally psycho.

(Hey, if you are a Ross hater, spare me the hate mail telling me I AM psycho).

It used to be that if I didn’t get at least 7 hours a night, my state would deteriorate rapidly, I’d get moody, emotional, and pretty non-functional.

Whereas today, while I don’t like it or prefer it, I can handle it. I can move with it and through it and because I can be fully aware of all of the tired sensations, without fighting them, it simply is something I can handle instead of freaking out about.

What is the point of all this with regards to your continuing quest for moist-pink success with the lovely ladies you desire?

Just this: in your journey towards success with women, you will have many moments where you have to deal with some difficult emotions.

You’ll experience frustration.

You’ll experience anger.

And I can tell you, for certain, you’ll experience some serious confusion.

But you know what? If you refuse to tell yourself disempowering stories about it-if you refrain from taking the meaning that you are a “loser” or that it isn’t worth it or that women are all “bitches” are whatever, then you have a chance at learning to have much better responses to it all.

What does that mean?

It means that what used to stop you or burden you simply becomes fuel for progress, success and learning. And that even the most difficult emotions and frustrating experiences become fantastic tools for self-education, self-knowing, and learning about who you really are and whom you really can become.

You see, because Speed Seduction® isn’t just about a bunch of routines or behaviors that you go out and do, it requires more from you than all the other programs out there. It requires that you learn deeply about who you are, and transform the person you are as you challenge yourself to grow beyond your own fixed patterns and the horrible brainwashing around sex and women that the world has been feeding you.

So it may require a lot more work on yourself than “Double Your Masturbating” or “Misery Method”.

But throwing off your chains and becoming the best you can be is worth it. As are of course, the women.

Off to take my nap now.

Piece, Peace and Hej Dar(it’s Swedish for “see you later”),

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is the opinion of many men, that women, by and large, are crazy.

I do not share that opinion at all.

For the most part, most women I’ve met and been with have been pretty sane and healthy, and maybe just a bit nutty enough to be interesting (as I myself have been described).

But one of the more common complaints I get from students is something along the lines of, “Why do I only seem to attract the crazy ones?”

For example, the other day, one of my students who is a member of my exclusive clients-only discussion group, for owners of my Home Study Course, posted a story about a young woman who he had been chatting up.

It seems this young lady had been discussing how she wanted to lose her virginity but also seemed to be quite afraid of men.

How did she let my student know about her fear?

Well, she invited him back to her dorm room to get some help filling in some school related paperwork. But as they were headed there she said, “I just want you to know I keep a really large switchblade in my room that I always show to guys. So please don’t be scared of my knife-it’s normal to keep one when you’ve been abused as a child, right?”

I kid you not.

Now, I have nothing but sympathy for any human who has been abused. But it isn’t this guy’s job (or yours) to do what I call “emotional dentistry”-if a woman is already sexually hung up or emotionally shut-down, trying to get past all that and only after that, trying to get her attracted to you is like pulling teeth. Just too much damn work and not your job.

The answer to “why do I keep attracting the crazy ones?” is, “because up until now, you thought that was your job and that the crazy ones were all there were”.

With the tools and methods of Speed Seduction® you can screen for and attract the women who already love sex, love intimacy and love men.

It beats the hell out of knife-wielding co-ed teenaged-virgins…although on second thought that sounds kinda hot.

Piece and peace,

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,



Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.



However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.



And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.



And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.



If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.



Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.



‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of this ongoing ezine series, I explained how getting her doing most of the talking is a key to you never running out of things to say and a good way to get her doing most of the seduction work.

Now let’s get to tip #3:

Secrets Of Continuous Conversation Tip #3:
Know What To Topics To Discuss When You Are Going
To Be Talking
Before I give you this tip, it’s crucial that I make a distinction: this isn’t just about never running out of things to say. It’s about saying things and getting her talking in ways that capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

A good general rule here is that if what you are discussing can be put on a chart or a graph or a prospectus or resume…

…It Is Probably Not Going To Capture And Lead Her Imagination And Emotions

There is a half-truth floating around out there that says men are not as verbal as women.

The full truth is that we guys are just as verbal, but our language tends to be factually based, referring to data, facts, figures, numbers etc.

When you want to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, you need to speak in language that addresses the right brain-the seat of emotions, fantasies, desires, etc.

And even more importantly, you need to be able to get a woman talking about these themes, topics and subjects, because when a woman talks about something…

…She Revives The Emotions And Feeling States Associated With That Topic

Have you ever had a woman start talking about a negative, painful subject and watch her mood progressively get worse and worse?

If you are a “nice guy” and have been the guy women dump their problems, complaints and pain on, you’ve probably witnessed this as you’ve suffered thorugh your career as her “emotional tampon”.

Don’t I just have a lovely way with metaphors that stick in your mind?

Anyway, since women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move-towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc.

Doesn’t that just make sense?

Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.

• Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
• Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
• Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected

If you’d like to know all of the topics, and many easy ways to both speak about them and get women talking about them, all the way to your bed (or floor or couch), check out my Home Study Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of the ezine series on Continuous Conversation I explained how turning down the lust and getting curious about her was crucial to never running out of things to say that also moves the seduction along.

Let’s jump to the next Continuous Conversation Principle:

Continuous Conversation Tip#2:
Get Her Doing Most Of The Talking

This dovetails perfectly with the first tip about getting curious about her and asking the right questions-obviously you are doing this to get her talking.

But what most guys don’t realize is that getting her talking instead of you dominating the conversation, is crucial for many reasons and that you ignore this one at your peril.

You see, not only does flapping your lips most of the time make her feel that you are not listening to her and seeing her as a real human being. It also causes you to ignore the very important tips and clues she is giving you about what she likes, what she responds to, what turns her on and also what turns her off.

Hell, some guys are so busy talking they don’t even notice it when a woman is actually hot and ready to go; they actually talk themselves out of her bed.

What’s that you’re thinking? “I’d never be that stupid, Ross”.

Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure. Don’t be too sure.

What I’ve found is that by getting women talking about the right topics and themes and knowing how to intensify her feelings that come up from these conversations, I can usually get her to talk herself right through my front door. And you would be shocked (and perhaps disturbingly aroused) at how graphic these conversations get-and this is the key-on her part, not mine. My students report the same thing over and over and over again, so this has got to be a powerful principle.

Ignore it at your peril.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction ®

P.S. Your Home Study Course is waiting right here, filled with example after example of how to get her talking in the right direction and how to easily use what she gives you to make her hot and ready to jump you. Thousands of guys have got this course-how big of an advantage do they have on you?

This is the funniest fucking thing I’ve ever seen, and the hilarious part is the element
of truth: some chicks will date the lowest of the low.

RJ