Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of this ongoing ezine series, I explained how getting her doing most of the talking is a key to you never running out of things to say and a good way to get her doing most of the seduction work.

Now let’s get to tip #3:

Secrets Of Continuous Conversation Tip #3:
Know What To Topics To Discuss When You Are Going
To Be Talking
Before I give you this tip, it’s crucial that I make a distinction: this isn’t just about never running out of things to say. It’s about saying things and getting her talking in ways that capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

A good general rule here is that if what you are discussing can be put on a chart or a graph or a prospectus or resume…

…It Is Probably Not Going To Capture And Lead Her Imagination And Emotions

There is a half-truth floating around out there that says men are not as verbal as women.

The full truth is that we guys are just as verbal, but our language tends to be factually based, referring to data, facts, figures, numbers etc.

When you want to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, you need to speak in language that addresses the right brain-the seat of emotions, fantasies, desires, etc.

And even more importantly, you need to be able to get a woman talking about these themes, topics and subjects, because when a woman talks about something…

…She Revives The Emotions And Feeling States Associated With That Topic

Have you ever had a woman start talking about a negative, painful subject and watch her mood progressively get worse and worse?

If you are a “nice guy” and have been the guy women dump their problems, complaints and pain on, you’ve probably witnessed this as you’ve suffered thorugh your career as her “emotional tampon”.

Don’t I just have a lovely way with metaphors that stick in your mind?

Anyway, since women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move-towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc.

Doesn’t that just make sense?

Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.

• Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
• Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
• Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected

If you’d like to know all of the topics, and many easy ways to both speak about them and get women talking about them, all the way to your bed (or floor or couch), check out my Home Study Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction (R) Student,

If you follow the advice I am about to give you in the next few issues of this ezine, you will never again have to worry about running out of things to say or talk about with women.

Now for those of you who have witnessed what a silver- tongued devil I am these days, it might be hard to believe that yes, your Guru of Getting Some was once a guy who stumbled over his words with women. Once I ran out of funny(I could always make anyone laugh) I pretty much had shot my bolt, and the conversations would either stop right there, or I would go off on lectures about military history, the United States strategic nuclear weapons stockpile, or some other instant female turn-off topic (IFTT).

So in the next couple of issues of this ezine, I want to give you some very easy to use tips to assist you in always being able to move things forward so you and the lady you lust wind up doing the mattress grind tango.

Continuous Conversation Tip #1:
Turn Down The Lust, Turn Up The Curiosity

I often tell my students who present this problem that the real issue is not that they run out of things to say, but rather they run out of things to notice and get curious about.

So many guys are so focused on how luscious Linda or marvelous Malin will look riding their baloney pony that they forget that women are human beings. They have hopes, fears, wishes, joys, desires. Yes, they have great legs, rears and pouty BJ lips. But it is what is in their hearts and minds that will assist you in getting into their skivvies.

One good way to do this is to simply ask yourself the question, “What can I notice about this person that I can get curious about? What kind of question can I ask her that will get her to start talking to me about what she enjoys, what she dreams about, what she likes to indulge in?”

The questions that you generate from this kind of thinking are almost always exactly the kinds of questions that will open a woman up and get her talking herself right into your bed. And an added bonus is that she will perceive you as wonderfully “deeper” and different from the thousands of drooling slobs who try to paw her within minutes of meeting her or bombard her with compliments on her looks.

When you stand out like this in a woman’s eyes, you are half-way home to pulling back the sheets with her. And that sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,

RJ

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