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Knife-Wielding Co-ed Teenage Virgins In Heat

Thursday, July 24th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is the opinion of many men, that women, by and large, are crazy.

I do not share that opinion at all.

For the most part, most women I’ve met and been with have been pretty sane and healthy, and maybe just a bit nutty enough to be interesting (as I myself have been described).

But one of the more common complaints I get from students is something along the lines of, “Why do I only seem to attract the crazy ones?”

For example, the other day, one of my students who is a member of my exclusive clients-only discussion group, for owners of my Home Study Course, posted a story about a young woman who he had been chatting up.

It seems this young lady had been discussing how she wanted to lose her virginity but also seemed to be quite afraid of men.

How did she let my student know about her fear?

Well, she invited him back to her dorm room to get some help filling in some school related paperwork. But as they were headed there she said, “I just want you to know I keep a really large switchblade in my room that I always show to guys. So please don’t be scared of my knife-it’s normal to keep one when you’ve been abused as a child, right?”

I kid you not.

Now, I have nothing but sympathy for any human who has been abused. But it isn’t this guy’s job (or yours) to do what I call “emotional dentistry”-if a woman is already sexually hung up or emotionally shut-down, trying to get past all that and only after that, trying to get her attracted to you is like pulling teeth. Just too much damn work and not your job.

The answer to “why do I keep attracting the crazy ones?” is, “because up until now, you thought that was your job and that the crazy ones were all there were”.

With the tools and methods of Speed Seduction® you can screen for and attract the women who already love sex, love intimacy and love men.

It beats the hell out of knife-wielding co-ed teenaged-virgins…although on second thought that sounds kinda hot.

Piece and peace,

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Leykis Loonies Want My Head!

Wednesday, July 23rd, 2008

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom’s ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin’ Loonies missed: Tom’s view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it’s about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it’s just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: “What the thinker thinks, the prover proves”. If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

That last sentence is so important I am going to repeat in all caps for you Leykettes to ponder at length over your beer and bologna sandwiches:

WHAT YOU SET AS YOUR VISION WILL BE THE LIMITS OF YOUR EXPERIENCE



If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don’t get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn’t exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

‘Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it’s time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

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Secrets Of Continuous Conversation: How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say: Part I

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction (R) Student,

If you follow the advice I am about to give you in the next few issues of this ezine, you will never again have to worry about running out of things to say or talk about with women.

Now for those of you who have witnessed what a silver- tongued devil I am these days, it might be hard to believe that yes, your Guru of Getting Some was once a guy who stumbled over his words with women. Once I ran out of funny(I could always make anyone laugh) I pretty much had shot my bolt, and the conversations would either stop right there, or I would go off on lectures about military history, the United States strategic nuclear weapons stockpile, or some other instant female turn-off topic (IFTT).

So in the next couple of issues of this ezine, I want to give you some very easy to use tips to assist you in always being able to move things forward so you and the lady you lust wind up doing the mattress grind tango.

Continuous Conversation Tip #1:
Turn Down The Lust, Turn Up The Curiosity

I often tell my students who present this problem that the real issue is not that they run out of things to say, but rather they run out of things to notice and get curious about.

So many guys are so focused on how luscious Linda or marvelous Malin will look riding their baloney pony that they forget that women are human beings. They have hopes, fears, wishes, joys, desires. Yes, they have great legs, rears and pouty BJ lips. But it is what is in their hearts and minds that will assist you in getting into their skivvies.

One good way to do this is to simply ask yourself the question, “What can I notice about this person that I can get curious about? What kind of question can I ask her that will get her to start talking to me about what she enjoys, what she dreams about, what she likes to indulge in?”

The questions that you generate from this kind of thinking are almost always exactly the kinds of questions that will open a woman up and get her talking herself right into your bed. And an added bonus is that she will perceive you as wonderfully “deeper” and different from the thousands of drooling slobs who try to paw her within minutes of meeting her or bombard her with compliments on her looks.

When you stand out like this in a woman’s eyes, you are half-way home to pulling back the sheets with her. And that sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you discover that you want more details on exactly the kinds of questions to ask women that bring their deepest desires and fantasies to the surface and how to grab hold of them and link them to you, you might want to click below and give my Home Study Course a look: http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/RJ187.php

P.P.S. Honestly, I know this will sound like total bull to many of you, but you can actually learn to stimulate a woman’s desires and fantasies before you even open your mouth, so what you say to her after that has even more impact. Check out my third best-selling course of my career below to find out more: http://www.speedseduction.biz/products/RJ170.php

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32 Minutes To Complete Success With Women?

Monday, June 30th, 2008

Dear Speed Seducers(R)

Not long ago, I released my 32 page report, “Ten Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women”.

I’ve gotten very good feedback on the report, and the coolest thing is, it shouldn’t take more than a minute per page to read it.

So if you haven’t got it, go here right now to do so. And please, pass on this link to your friends. I need to get the word out.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Your Speed Seduction(R) Home Study course will be off the market soon as I introduce the 3.0 Course. So if you don’t have the classic course, you better get it now.

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Commands and Suggestions To Get Laid Video, With Personal Notes

Friday, June 27th, 2008

Guys,

As I promised, I am going back through the 12 part free Speed Seduction(R) video course on Youtube and adding in my personal commentary and notes. The second video is now ready. Just click to watch it on Youtube and please tell your friends about it.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Please help me spread the word and pass the video link on. Let me know how you like the video, leave comments on Youtube or here.

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New Version: How To Arouse Women Video With Commentary

Wednesday, June 25th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve decided to slowly, one at a time, re-open the Introductory Speed Seduction Language Video course on my YouTube channel with a big difference; I am adding my own personal notes and commentary to the recorded videos, using a new YouTube feature.

If you play the video here on this blog, you will see that I have added notes that explain the key concepts I’m teaching, with some good additional instruction and useability to the video.

If I get good feedback here on the blog, I’ll do this with all 12 videos that make up the free course, so make sure you add your comments below. Me, I would appreciate it.

RJ

P.S. I intend to do every thing I can to deliver more and more quality feedback, instruction and support in every aspect of my business with you. This is a good step, I think, so give me your opinions.

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Overcoming fear

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007

Guys,

This is a video response to a question/email from a student on the member’s only Yahoo group. He wanted to know how he could overcome his fear of approaching women and be “dominant”. Here is a video of my answer:

RJ

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